Letter from a teenager to his Dad : By Derek Chapman
Below is a meaningful poem by Derek Chapman to his Dad, Gary Chapman
Gary Chapman is the author of the best seller The Five Love Languages for Teenagers
Click the following for a quizzes to get to know the love languages of yourself as well as your family members.
Click here : Quizzes for the 5 love languages
Excerpt from : The Five Love Languages of Teenagers by Gary Chapman
Dad,
You listened way past dark,
This is what you gave to me,
You had ears to hear,
The exploding symphony of my youth,
Knife words, scissors syllables slicing thin air;
The others left,
You stayed,
And listened.
When I blew holes in the ceiling-shotgun screams,
Rapid firing flames,
Ripping angels’ wing open;
You waited,
Mended the wings.
And we continued somehow,
To the next day,
The next meal,
The next bomb.
And when they all ran for cover,
For shelter,
For protection,
You stayed out on the battlefield,
Exposed to fire from all sides;
You risked your life,
When you had me
You risked your life listening,
Way past dark.
by Derek Chapman
Communication skill : Avoid Jumping to Conclusion before Clarification
Communication series
We need to avoid jumping to conclusion or make any assumption when someone says or do something. Be patient, take a deep breath and gently ask questions and seek clarification.
Here is a simple video for illustration.
Communication : How to Have Healthy Conflicts?
Here’s a short and informative video clip on communication skills for relationships
Pandemic and Mental health ( 疫情与心理健康 ), a talk by Psychiatrist, Counselor and Pastor
Pandemic and Mental health ( 疫情与心理健康 )
The following is a talk on Pandemic and Mental Health in Aug 2021
The 3 speakers are Dr Vincent Wong ( Psychiatrist, Klang ), Ms Yvonne Lee, PJ/Klang ( Counselor ) and Reverend Ho Yong Seng ( Pastor )
Communication : Seek first to understand then seek to be understood
Communication series 3.1
My recent posting was on communication between parents and child/teenager during moments of anger and frustrations. Click HERE for the link. And here is the link for PARENTING FORUM BY FOCUS ON THE FAMILY MALAYSIA.
The following tip of communication is by the late leadership guru Stephen Covey, who wrote the book 7 Habits of Highly Effective People. It is one of my favourite book.
I believe this is one of the most important art of communication for any relationship.
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=5utXgvHEj_E